Recommended Resources
I want to share the books and online resources that I have found helpful on my journey thus far. I have barely scratched the surface of recovery. This is lifelong work. Surrender to the work. Get curious and do your best to stay grounded, aware of your partner's feelings and avoid feeling out of control. The best gift you can give yourself and your betrayed spouse is recovery, patience and empathy.
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Expertly written by Dr. Robert Weiss. Underneath the hurt and betrayal, often there is still love. Where there is love and motivation for change, there is hope for the relationship to move forward.
This podcast, featuring Dr. Rob Weiss and Tamie Verheist, presents Q&A discussions from listener questions about addiction, betrayal, infidelity, and hard work required to heal relationship betrayal.
An empathy workbook for sex addicts to help their partners heal. The authors have created a workbook for rebuilding relationships damaged by sexual addiction and other forms of infidelity.
Jason Martinkus relates how he repaired his own marriage after revelations of sexual addiction. Along with Stephen Afterburn, they offer exercises and tools rooted in counseling principles to help your marriage begin again.
A basic guide to healing from sex, porn and love addiction written by Robert Weiss, MSW. He provides clear understanding into what defines sex addiction and how to step into the treatment process.
Dr. Patrick J. Carnes pioneered the first book to take techniques used by thousands of people recovering from sex addiction and show, step-by-step, how to break free from this disease and live a healthier, more fulfilling life.